Are You Ready To Experience
Powerful Partnership?
Transform Your Relationships. Deepen Your Connections. Build A Bridge To Love.
Join the global community of students who are experiencing harmonious relationship, by becoming a member of the Bridge To Love program.
Are You Ready To Experience
Powerful Partnership?
Transform Your Relationships. Deepen Your Connections. Build A Bridge To Love.
This Course Is For You If:
- You truly love one another, but you can’t seem to get on the same page.
- You feel stuck and like you keep replaying the same old patterns and problems.
- Everything is good, but you’re ready to experience a relationship that’s extraordinary
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You and your partner have become more like "roommates" and want to rediscover your spark.
Building From Scratch
Building From Scratch
As human beings, we all seek to connect with that one person to fulfill our innate desire for intimate partnership.
We want something MEANINGFUL, something REAL, and something DEEPLY CONNECTED!
But what exactly does it mean to have a well-rounded and healthy relationship?
And more specifically....
Just how do we achieve long-lasting intimacy and love?
- Miscommunication
- Lack of affection
- Zero sexual chemistry
- Codependency
- Codependency
- Controlling behavior
- No boundaries
And the list goes on with a variety of issues that prevent a relationship from blossoming into its highest expression.
So Here’s What You Need To Know….
That’s why we created The Bridge To Love....
We built this course because we knew there was a deep need for a new approach to love.
We wanted to break the mold and reshape the dysfunctional archetype of modern-day relationships...
Out with the old patterns of fear-based and unconscious patterns of behavior running on default...
And in with the new and powerful partnership that is consciously crafted by DESIGN….a union where you get to experience what it means to truly be FREE in love.
The Bridge to Love offers all of the tools you need to deepen your bond and expand yourselves, to open up your relationship in ways you never imagined.
Our unique combination of modalities that encompass the mind, body, and spirit (and truly have you working toward an INTEGRATED approach to love) is what sets this course apart from the rest.
As you move through the program’s process, you will uncover what is holding you back so that you may enter into a space of legitimate JOY with your partner….a space where you are able to co-create something GENUINE and SUSTAINABLE….and THAT lights us up.
We get what it feels like to be in the struggle and breakdown of your relationship...it can feel like the most painful and hopeless situation at times.
We’ve been there, and we literally went everywhere we could for answers, because we knew that our love was worth fighting for.
What we’ve put together in this course is the EXACT blueprint we used to rebuild our partnership from the ground up...
and to truly build a Bridge to Love.
Alexi and Preston are both trained and to teach the Gottman Institute methodology, which is built on 40+ years of scientific research. Based on studies performed in their “Love Lab”, the Gottman Institute uncovered many key factors that predict a couple’s relationship longevity and satisfaction potential.
Using this research, along with the work and tools of countless other trainings and methodologies, they’ve created their own unique approach and roadmap for couples to experience their relationships in a fresh, exciting, and empowering way.
This is literally the same roadmap they used for their own relationship to not only “get through a rough patch” but to proactively build a solid foundation from which their relationship can stand the test of time.
Alexi and Preston are no strangers to paving their own way to success---having created The Bridge Method--(which was literally born out of the same frustration with the personal development industry feeling out dated) which has supported hundred of thousands of people all over the world in transforming the way they relate to life by participating in their various programs and workshops all over the world.
For the past 10 years, they have both dedicated their lives to learning as much as possible about Human Potential, Relationships, Positive Psychology, NLP, Breathwork, Ontology of Language, Transformative Studies, Somatic Wisdom, Gestalt Therapy, Emotional Intelligence, and Esoteric Wisdom to step into their own leadership and truly "walk the walk" of this work.
Some of Their Work Together
Alexi and Preston have devoted their lives to transforming the way the world works, by transforming the lives of individuals.
They currently speak and lead workshops all over the world (both together and separate), as well as run their own wildly successful empowerment platforms.
Both Preston + Alexi released their first solo books in June 2016 under the publishing house of Simon + Schuster; and their first collaborative book-NOW OR NEVER- with the same publisher in January 2017.
What You'll Learn
The Bridge To Love program guides you through an easy-to-follow, 12 part curriculum.
Each of these 12 modules, which take about one hour per week to complete, focus on a unique aspect of love and relationship, with an exercise that you’ll apply during the session.
This immediate action will help you cultivate a strong foundation that’s EMBODIED, because you’re actually doing the work in real time.
They’ve taken the time to test what works and eliminated what doesn’t, so you don’t have to spend endless hours going through the trial and error process like they did.
The Bridge to Love includes practical exercises to perform with your partner, that provide immediate and visible transformation.
Here is an Overview of the Results
You Can Expect as You Progress Through the Course:
1. Empowering Communication
Empowering communication is about speaking with intention and thoughtfulness in regard to anything that comes up in your partnership. It’s about playing as a team and ensuring you both feel heard and understood, whether or not you agree with your partner.
2. Living a Collective Vision
As a couple, it’s imperative you hold a COLLECTIVE vision for the relationship, that includes the intention and meaning of what this partnership will bring to you, what values and needs get met, and what you desire to explore and expand on together.
3. Emotional Intimacy
Building and maintaining deep, emotional intimacy is a skill that is essential to having deep meaning and connectedness. This pillar is all about opening up your heart and letting your partner in, letting them explore and understand your world from a space of empathy and compassion.
4. Shifting Conflict to Growth
Exploring and navigating your dis-agreements and conflict creates amazing opportunities to grow together, as you gain a deeper level of self awareness. Relationships are about conscious expansion, and we can only really achieve this level of self-exploration by having a powerful mirror that allows us to see ourselves objectively and shows us where we still may need to heal or explore.
5. Fulfilling Needs
Every human has a unique set of needs that yearn to be met while in partnership. It’s imperative that you do the work to understand what your needs are, and more specifically, how your partner can meet them. This ensures you are both set up for success, with a clear and actionable plan to fill up your cup!
6. Excitement & Play
Without excitement and play, our relationship begins to feel more like roommates and less like romance. This pillar is all about developing a relationship with LIFE that has you prioritizing moments and experiences that keep you lit up, growing, and excited to keep exploring life with your partner in shine!
7. Cultivating Trust
Trust is the foundation from which everything is built when it comes to powerful relationships….but it’s not just a blanket concept. We’ll explore the 4 Domains of Trust and how to begin repairing any breeches you may have in each domain. Co-creating conscious agreements within your relationship also deepens your trust, because you begin to form your “third world”, which is created consciously as a couple.
8. Sexual Fulfillment
Sexual fulfillment is about creating the space to allow you both to explore and dive into your sexual preferences with openness, trust, and acceptance. This pillar also explores the depth of what "sex" actually is...and how you can begin to nurture it outside of the bedroom.
Full Curriculum Summary
MODULE
00
8 Pillars of Powerful Partnerships & The Four Phases of Relationship
Take the 8 Pillars Assessment and uncover which phase you’re currently in, so you have a solid awareness of your current starting point. From here, we’ll begin to build our foundation through the 12 modules.
Module
01
Co-Creating Your Vision & Compass
Co-create your vision and create your Relationship Compass to support and guide you as you navigate your partnership.
Love Deposits & The Relationship Bank Account
Module
03
Your Love Blueprint
Dissect the story and unconscious beliefs and imprints that determine how you show up for and view relationships. We will explore your “Relationship Blueprint” and "Caretaker Imprint" so that we may shift the programming that corrupts communication and sabotages love.
Module
04
Relationship Rituals
Deliberately design rituals that will become the lifeblood of your relationship---build fun and creativity through play rituals, practice stress-reducing conversations, and embrace physical connection and sex. These rituals, when implemented regularly, have been scientifically proven to keep couples thriving through the long haul.
Module
05
Conscious & Unconscious Agreements
Learn how to set appropriate expectations with one another by evaluating the explicit and implicit agreements that exist in your relationship. You will be given the tools to peacefully navigate the practical matters of everyday life and co-create your world together as a couple.
Module
06
Communication Styles & Frameworks
Learn communication techniques and frameworks to create a safe and compassionate space to be heard, preserving your identity and allowing your connection to flourish.
Module
07
The 8 Predictors of Failed Relationships
Become familiar with the avatars of who we become in an effort to cope with our triggers, shining a light on why people actually break-up. You will learn how to productively approach conflict and avoid the pitfalls that ruin relationships.
Module
08
The 4 Components of Trust: Breeches & Repairs
Learn the Four Components of Trust and why they affect how you relate to your partner. You will discover the value of trust, what it takes to build trust, and how to successfully maintain and repair trust.
Module
9
Overcoming Gridlock & Perpetual Problems
Finally (!!!) get to the root of those tough problems that seem to keep coming back, so that you can break the destructive cycles and patterns of behavior that prevent progress in your relationship.
Module
10
Let’s Talk About Sex… (And Have Some!)
Dive into the many layers of sex by discovering what REALLY turns your partner on….and TOWARD YOU! You will learn the difference between physical and emotional intimacy, as well as the many different ways in which we create and use sexual energy.
Module
11
Create Your Village
This module is a necessary one, and is often overlooked once we couple up. You will each intentionally design your “village”---which includes your support system, activities, nourishment, creativity and growth.
Module
12
Building Your Secure Base
Deliberately design and create SAFETY in your relationship by establishing your Secure Base. You will learn what it takes to build deep security in the relationship as a whole, and what it takes to co-create more of both "exciting love" and "quiet love" so you can activate all the feel good chemicals that support your bond.
Wait...there's more!
Join The Bridge to Love today and receive incredible bonus materials including:
Wait...and there's more!
Join The Bridge to Love today and receive incredible bonus materials including:
The Bridge To Love Advantage
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The Anti-Therapy Approach
The Bridge to Love offers a fresh and completely different approach created for today’s relationship. This course immerses you and your partner in the work collaboratively, creating a “team” dynamic, rather than “me versus you.”
Built for the MODERN human who doesn't just want to stew in problems, but rather create from a place of possibility and intention, our goal is to build the foundation of love first, in order to feel empowered and able to navigate whatever may come your way.
2
A Focus on Empowering Communication
Connection must be in place before we try and process the hell out of our relationship!
This course focuses on empowering you to speak your truth from a loving space, without blaming or projecting onto your partner. You must both feel encouraged to create solutions together. This is very different from the old school models of communication that simply don't work when things get heated.
3
The Bridge Method
Based on years of extensive study and training, Alexi and Preston have remixed the following modalities and trainings to create the Bridge To Love course: Imago Education, The Gottman Institute, Somatic Training (using the body as a source of wisdom), Conflict Resolution, Authentic Relating, Non Violent Communication, Active Listening, Ontology of Language, NLP, Relationship Coaching practices, Emotional Intelligence work, Positive Psychology and many others.
They’ve been coaching and working extensively with people from all over the world, applying these teachings for the last 10 years. The Bridge to Love is a culmination of their entire body of work, specifically applied to romantic relationships and love.
"Preston Smiles slaps you in the face with life's forgotten truths. His infectious energy leaves you feeling refreshed and awakened to your own path of possibility. While fully invoking his masculinity, it is his caring, sensitive, and loving nature that makes him a true man and a hero to many..."
- Britt Hysen
Founder of Millennial Magazine
"Alexi is the next generation of thought leaders, paving a path with her incredibly unique and down-to-earth approach. Alexi's insights and tools to uncovering personal happiness and freedom will leave you inspired and empowered to take action in all areas of your life!
-Jack Canfield
Author of the #1 New York Times Bestselling Chicken Soup for the Soul® series and The Success Principles™.
Your Relationships Will Never Be The Same
You cannot live on this planet and avoid relationships.
Whether that’s a relationship with your partner, a family member, your children, your co-workers, and even the peripheral people in your life, like your kid’s teacher, your mechanic, the person who makes your latte at your local coffee shop, etc....
Connection is part of what the human experience is all about. In fact, it just may be EXACTLY what this life is all about.
It’s time to shake up everything you ever thought was true about relationships and love.
It’s time to break the unhealthy patterns and cycles that have been playing out for far too long.
It’s time to rewrite the future of your relationship, by building your Bridge to Love.
Success Stories From Students Who Have Trained
With Alexi & Preston
"My wife and I have been together for 17 yrs. After working with you guys at our relationship has GROWN. The ability to give each other feedback in an honest but loving way has been a game changer"
-Kristen Jakubenko
[Preston and Alexi] have helped me let go of a relationship without getting stuck in story.
It has given me the courage to date which was something I hadn't done since my teens. It has empowered me to communicate my values and boundaries and to say no with ease and grace. It's taught me to trust my gut and heart and only go for the Hell Yes.
It's taught me that my inner world is creating my relationships and the more I've dug deep and done the work the more people show up in my life.
It's inspired me to be more vulnerable and transparent and opened deeper levels of intimacy. It's attracted a very beautiful kind yummy man into my life.
- Thea Simone
"I reintroduced myself to my partner as my new more vulnerable and gentle self. We have more fun and laugh more. Instead of putting pressure on him to make me happy,
I make myself happier and then we come together to enjoy it. Communication is so much easier and I can see when I'm in my shit and deal with it before projecting on him making it less draining and even more rewarding at the end."
- Alex Saba
"[My partner and I] took our communication to another level. It helped us to see and appreciate our personal wounds that we project onto each other. Our relationship continues to grow and strengthen..."
-Tom Crate
"We have learnt to be more gentle with ourselves and our expectations of marriage...to have the hard conversations that may hurt each other's feelings but still need that level of honesty.
We have more fun now, we both have learnt to have a strong ask to get our needs met and I no I am no where need as sensitive...."
- Jarna Saunders
- 12 Modules that synthesizes 40+ years of scientific research into powerful exercises, so you’re in action and making changes right away!
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Specific exercises and techniques to help you build your foundation of The 8 Pillars of Powerful Partnerships
- Incredible bonus material that includes a Emergency Repair Kit, Communication Cheat sheets, and other goodies to support your long lasting and healthy connection
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Frequently Asked Questions
Does my partner need to be on board in order for me to benefit from this course?
What if my relationship is already pretty good? Would I still get value out of this program?
Absolutely! You will likely experience the greatest benefits from doing this work because you get to deepen and expand the foundation that is already in place. We call this Relationship Mastery--and doing this work together will deepen your bond, and expand what's possible for your love!
This course is 12 modules---does that mean we have to complete it in 12 weeks?
We suggest setting aside time each week to dedicate to doing this work, so that you can keep the momentum building from week to week. That being said, you can totally do this in your own time and take as much time as you require with each module to ensure you get what you need from it. We also have couples that love to continue the practice of each week's work after they've completed all 12 modules, by restarting the course!
Can I do this while having a therapist/coach for my relationship already?
YES! Our work is a fresh approach to partnership that we believe will compliment the work you're already doing, as our process is about building a deeper bond and arming you will tools you can use in any circumstance.
I've tried relationship therapy in the past and it didn't work--why will this time be different?
Because we take a different approach to work with couples. Yes, therapy can be helpful, but study after study shows that in a lot of cases, it's not. Even we have tried couples therapy in the past, and found it did NOT work for us---which led us to first to finding tools and strategies that did work for us and then second, led us to creating this course. We knew there had to be a different way....and there is! It just existed in a wide variety of modalities...so we have pulled together and innovated on what worked best for us and our clients and are sharing that with you!
We do have a highly curated group of Relationship coaches that we recommend for one on one support. Please email us at bridgemethod@gmail.com if this interests you.
What Experts Say About Alexi & Preston
"Work with Alexi and you will light a luminous spark of joy in your life that will cause your heart to sing and your soul to soar."
-Michael Bernard Beckwith
Author and Founder of Agape Spiritual Center
"Alexi Panos is a soul igniter committed to the up-leveling and transformation of the human spirit...she creates room for everyone around her to step in, be supported, held and inspired by their own journey."
-Lori Harder,
Transformational Speaker, Author, Fitness Expert
"Alexi Panos is to this generation what Debbie Ford and Marianne Williamson are to past generations."
- Jake Ducey
Author of The Purpose Principles
"Preston Smiles is the light house of hope. He knows how to speak in the language of the current and next generation with his own voice all while channeling traditional wisdom from the legacy leaders and his own life experiences, which is the highest form of learning and teaching. "
- Joel Brown
Founder of Addicted2Success.com The #1 Motivation Website
“I’ve sent many people to Preston Smiles, because I always know he’ll deliver value”
- Lewis Howes
New York Times Best selling Author of The School of Greatness
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