Transform Your Relationships. Deepen Your Connections. Build A Bridge To Love.
Join the global community of students who are experiencing harmonious relationship, by becoming a member of the Bridge To Love program.
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This Course Is For You If:
- You truly love one another, but you can’t seem to get on the same page.
- You feel stuck and like you keep replaying the same old patterns and problems.
- Everything is good, but you’re ready to experience a relationship that’s extraordinary
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You and your partner have become more like "roommates" and want to rediscover your spark.
- You have children, feel like you’ve lost your relationship as a couple, and are yearning to reconnect.
- You are taking that next step of commitment (marriage, moving in together, or kids) and want to build a solid foundation for that next chapter.
- Your relationship is new, but you know it’s long term, so you’re looking for the tools to be proactive.
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You feel like this chapter of your relationship may be ending, and you want to give it one last chance.
Building From Scratch
Building From Scratch
As human beings, we all seek to connect with that one person to fulfill our innate desire for intimate partnership.
We want something MEANINGFUL, something REAL, and something DEEPLY CONNECTED!
But what exactly does it mean to have a well-rounded and healthy relationship?
And more specifically....
Just how do we achieve long-lasting intimacy and love?
- Miscommunication
- Lack of affection
- Zero sexual chemistry
- Codependency
- Controlling behavior
- No boundaries
And the list goes on with a variety of issues that prevent a relationship from blossoming into its highest expression.
So Here’s What You Need To Know….
That’s why we created The Bridge To Love....
We built this course because we knew there was a deep need for a new approach to love.
We wanted to break the mold and reshape the dysfunctional archetype of modern-day relationships...
Out with the old patterns of fear-based and unconscious patterns of behavior running on default...
And in with the new and powerful partnership that is consciously crafted by DESIGN….a union where you get to experience what it means to truly be FREE in love.
The Bridge to Love offers all of the tools you need to deepen your bond and expand yourselves, to open up your relationship in ways you never imagined.
Our unique combination of modalities that encompass the mind, body, and spirit (and truly have you working toward an INTEGRATED approach to love) is what sets this course apart from the rest.
As you move through the program’s process, you will uncover what is holding you back so that you may enter into a space of legitimate JOY with your partner….a space where you are able to co-create something GENUINE and SUSTAINABLE….and THAT lights us up.
We get what it feels like to be in the struggle and breakdown of your relationship...it can feel like the most painful and hopeless situation at times.
We’ve been there, and we literally went everywhere we could for answers, because we knew that our love was worth fighting for.
What we’ve put together in this course is the EXACT blueprint we used to rebuild our partnership from the ground up...
and to truly build a Bridge to Love.
40+ Years Of Scientific Research
Searching For The Key To Successful Relationships
After traveling the world together, running 3 businesses, a marriage, a baby and a miscarriage--Preston and Alexi have had every opportunity to crumble beneath the pressure of what their life was requiring of them. They met their edge, and at one point, considered calling it quits--but they knew there had to be a better way.
After trying traditional relationship therapy (without success!) they knew that the "old" models of dealing with relationships weren't going to cut it for our modern times--there was just too much that has changed in the last 10 years and "being human" came with a whole new set of circumstances to consider.
Both being children of divorce, they decided to break the cycle and figure out a more empowering way to not only keep the relationship together, but to have it THRIVE.
Some of Their Work Together
Alexi and Preston have devoted their lives to transforming the way the world works, by transforming the lives of individuals.
They currently speak and lead workshops all over the world (both together and separate), as well as run their own wildly successful empowerment platforms.
Both Preston + Alexi released their first solo books in June 2016 under the publishing house of Simon + Schuster; and their first collaborative book-NOW OR NEVER- with the same publisher in January 2017.
What You'll Learn
The Bridge To Love program guides you through an easy-to-follow, 12 part curriculum.
Each of these 12 modules, which take about one hour per week to complete, focus on a unique aspect of love and relationship, with an exercise that you’ll apply during the session.
This immediate action will help you cultivate a strong foundation that’s EMBODIED, because you’re actually doing the work in real time.
Here is an Overview of the Results
You Can Expect as You Progress Through the Course:
1. Empowering Communication
Empowering communication is about speaking with intention and thoughtfulness in regard to anything that comes up in your partnership. It’s about playing as a team and ensuring you both feel heard and understood, whether or not you agree with your partner.
2. Living a Collective Vision
As a couple, it’s imperative you hold a COLLECTIVE vision for the relationship, that includes the intention and meaning of what this partnership will bring to you, what values and needs get met, and what you desire to explore and expand on together.
3. Emotional Intimacy
4. Shifting Conflict to Growth
Exploring and navigating your dis-agreements and conflict creates amazing opportunities to grow together, as you gain a deeper level of self awareness. Relationships are about conscious expansion, and we can only really achieve this level of self-exploration by having a powerful mirror that allows us to see ourselves objectively and shows us where we still may need to heal or explore.
5. Fulfilling Needs
Every human has a unique set of needs that yearn to be met while in partnership. It’s imperative that you do the work to understand what your needs are, and more specifically, how your partner can meet them. This ensures you are both set up for success, with a clear and actionable plan to fill up your cup!
6. Excitement & Play
Without excitement and play, our relationship begins to feel more like roommates and less like romance. This pillar is all about developing a relationship with LIFE that has you prioritizing moments and experiences that keep you lit up, growing, and excited to keep exploring life with your partner in shine!
7. Cultivating Trust
8. Sexual Fulfillment
Full Curriculum Summary
MODULE
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8 Pillars of Powerful Partnerships & The Four Phases of Relationship
Module
01
Co-Creating Your Vision & Compass
Co-create your vision and create your Relationship Compass to support and guide you as you navigate your partnership.
Love Deposits & The Relationship Bank Account
You and your partner will learn how to fill each other’s Relationship Bank Account by exploring the 9 categories of needs. By gaining a deep understanding of just HOW the other likes to receive love in each of these categories, you will be able to provide them exactly what they need and want.
Module
03
Your Love Blueprint
Dissect the story and unconscious beliefs and imprints that determine how you show up for and view relationships. We will explore your “Relationship Blueprint” and "Caretaker Imprint" so that we may shift the programming that corrupts communication and sabotages love.
Module
04
Relationship Rituals
Deliberately design rituals that will become the lifeblood of your relationship---build fun and creativity through play rituals, practice stress-reducing conversations, and embrace physical connection and sex. These rituals, when implemented regularly, have been scientifically proven to keep couples thriving through the long haul.
Module
05
Conscious & Unconscious Agreements
Learn how to set appropriate expectations with one another by evaluating the explicit and implicit agreements that exist in your relationship. You will be given the tools to peacefully navigate the practical matters of everyday life and co-create your world together as a couple.
Module
06
Communication Styles & Frameworks
Learn communication techniques and frameworks to create a safe and compassionate space to be heard, preserving your identity and allowing your connection to flourish.
Module
07
The Eight Predictors of Failed Relationships
& How To Avoid Them
Become familiar with the avatars of who we become in an effort to cope with our triggers, shining a light on why people actually break-up. You will learn how to productively approach conflict and avoid the pitfalls that ruin relationships.
Module
08
The Components of Trust: Breeches & Repairs
Learn the Four Components of Trust and why they affect how you relate to your partner. You will discover the value of trust, what it takes to build trust, and how to successfully maintain and repair trust.
Module
09
Overcoming Gridlock and Perpetual Problems
Finally (!!!) get to the root of those tough problems that seem to keep coming back, so that you can break the destructive cycles and patterns of behavior that prevent progress in your relationship.
Let's Talk About Sex! (And Have Some!)
Dive into the many layers of sex by discovering what REALLY turns your partner on….and TOWARD YOU! You will learn the difference between physical and emotional intimacy, as well as the many different ways in which we create and use sexual energy.
Module
11
Creating Your Village
This module is deeply necessary, and yet is often overlooked once we couple up. You will each intentionally design your “village”---which includes your support system, activities, nourishment, creativity and growth that will keep you individually inspired and fulfilled, which will, in turn, bring more magic into the partnership!
Module
12
Building Your Secure Base
Deliberately design and create SAFETY in your relationship by establishing your Secure Base. You will learn what it takes to build deep security in the relationship as a whole, and what it takes to co-create more of both "exciting love" and "quiet love" so you can activate all the feel good chemicals that support your bond.
Wait...there's more!
Join The Bridge to Love today and receive incredible bonus materials including:
- Connect Question Bundle, open ended questions bundle to spark deeper conversation and intimacy
- Emergency Repair Kit for after a fight or disagreement to get back on track towards a cooperative vision of love and compassion
- Communication Cheat Sheet for Appreciation with a detailed framework on how to appreciate your partner effectively
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Communication Cheat Sheet for Assertive Conversation, to learn how to get your needs met, from a space of love, compassion and clarity
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Feedback Interview Framework, to use in your relationships with others to gain an objective view of others' experience of you
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7 Ways to Reinvigorate your Sex Life,learn these 7 hacks to help bring the spark back into your relationship
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Forgiveness Process Framework, this extensive framework will help you move through the process of forgiveness in order to truly release any past hurts
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Money + Love: Grow your Relationship & Your Net Worth, learn these tools to help you live abundantly in your love
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10 Myths of Marriage and How to Keep Love Alive, learn the myths that may be affecting the way you relate to love, and how you can keep your love alive
Wait...and there's more!
Join The Bridge to Love today and receive incredible bonus materials including:
Plus 12 Months of Exclusive LIVE Q&A Calls with Preston & Alexi
In addition to the 12 modules, exercises, and materials, Alexi and Preston will hold monthly Q&A calls, taking YOUR questions LIVE, so everyone watching can benefit from the answers and insight they provide.
Holding one another accountable to the commitment you make in the course is crucial, so this support is huge when it comes to staying in the game once the course is complete.
These EXCLUSIVE calls will ONLY be available to those in the course and will be available on a monthly basis through April 2020.
The Bridge To Love Advantage
The Anti-Therapy Approach
The Bridge to Love offers a fresh and completely different approach created for today’s relationship. This course immerses you and your partner in the work collaboratively, creating a “team” dynamic, rather than “me versus you.”
Built for the MODERN human who doesn't just want to stew in problems, but rather create from a place of possibility and intention, our goal is to build the foundation of love first, in order to feel empowered and able to navigate whatever may come your way.
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A Focus on Empowering Communication
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The Bridge Method
Based on years of extensive study and training, Alexi and Preston have remixed the following modalities and trainings to create the Bridge To Love course: Imago Education, The Gottman Institute, Somatic Training (using the body as a source of wisdom), Conflict Resolution, Authentic Relating, Non Violent Communication, Active Listening, Ontology of Language, NLP, Relationship Coaching practices, Emotional Intelligence work, Positive Psychology and many others.
They’ve been coaching and working extensively with people from all over the world, applying these teachings for the last 10 years. The Bridge to Love is a culmination of their entire body of work, specifically applied to romantic relationships and love.
"Preston Smiles slaps you in the face with life's forgotten truths. His infectious energy leaves you feeling refreshed and awakened to your own path of possibility. While fully invoking his masculinity, it is his caring, sensitive, and loving nature that makes him a true man and a hero to many..."
- Britt Hysen
Founder of Millennial Magazine
"Alexi is the next generation of thought leaders, paving a path with her incredibly unique and down-to-earth approach. Alexi's insights and tools to uncovering personal happiness and freedom will leave you inspired and empowered to take action in all areas of your life!
-Jack Canfield
Author of the #1 New York Times Bestselling Chicken Soup for the Soul® series and The Success Principles™.
Your Relationships Will Never Be The Same
You cannot live on this planet and avoid relationships.
Whether that’s a relationship with your partner, a family member, your children, your co-workers, and even the peripheral people in your life, like your kid’s teacher, your mechanic, the person who makes your latte at your local coffee shop, etc....
Connection is part of what the human experience is all about. In fact, it just may be EXACTLY what this life is all about.
And the most profoundly meaningful relationship you will ever have (which happens to be the one that’s talked about the least), is the one with YOURSELF! Your relationship with yourself will determine your relationship with EVERYONE around you.
As you and your partner progress through The Bridge To Love, you will begin to see a shift. You will see a shift not only in how you relate to one another, but in how you relate to life itself….because YOU will be changed.
This is one of the most beautiful parts of coming together in partnership. It transforms everything---because it challenges YOU to level up in ways that you didn’t even realize you may have needed to. It calls you forward and opens your heart to let more of LIFE in, and that affects everything.
By applying the tools, insights, and strategies you’ll be working with in this course, we know that you’ll be equipped to stand powerfully together in partnership, no matter what life may bring your way.
It’s time to shake up everything you ever thought was true about relationships and love.
It’s time to break the unhealthy patterns and cycles that have been playing out for far too long.
It’s time to rewrite the future of your relationship, by building your Bridge to Love.
Success Stories From Students Who Have Trained
With Alexi & Preston
"My wife and I have been together for 17 yrs. After working with you guys at our relationship has GROWN. The ability to give each other feedback in an honest but loving way has been a game changer"
-Kristen Jakubenko
"[My partner and I] took our communication to another level. It helped us to see and appreciate our personal wounds that we project onto each other. Our relationship continues to grow and strengthen..."
-Tom Crate
"We have learnt to be more gentle with ourselves and our expectations of marriage...to have the hard conversations that may hurt each other's feelings but still need that level of honesty.
We have more fun now, we both have learnt to have a strong ask to get our needs met and I no I am no where need as sensitive...."
- Jarna Saunders
“BEST TIME AND MONEY INVESTMENT WE'VE EVER SPENT in 19 years, both individually and as a couple. [Preston] and Alexi have made a whole new life possible for our family, in such a short amount of time.
Self mastery, learning, fun, common language, opportunities to see what we are made of as individuals, and then opportunities to see each other in a new light/strength/energy.”
- Syl Hendershott
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Let's Talk About Commitment...
This course is NOT for you if you don't plan on committing 100%. Because the truth is, there is no magic pill for powerful partnerships--YOU MUST DO THE WORK, and that journey reveals itself over time.
We've built a lifetime of patterns and programming that have been ineffective; and shifting those programs and patterns takes time and T.L.C. to essentially retrain ourselves with powerful beliefs and tools.
You must understand that the attitude you step into this process with will dictate your success with it---therefore, we do not offer refunds. We give our clients 100%, and we want you to be 100% IN, as well, with no back door. Because we know it will only work if YOU work it.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Does my partner need to be on board in order for me to benefit from this course?
What if my relationship is already pretty good? Would I still get value out of this program?
Absolutely! You will likely experience the greatest benefits from doing this work because you get to deepen and expand the foundation that is already in place. We call this Relationship Mastery--and doing this work together will deepen your bond, and expand what's possible for your love!
This course is 12 modules---does that mean we have to complete it in 12 weeks?
We suggest setting aside time each week to dedicate to doing this work, so that you can keep the momentum building from week to week. That being said, you can totally do this in your own time and take as much time as you require with each module to ensure you get what you need from it. We also have couples that love to continue the practice of each week's work after they've completed all 12 modules, by restarting the course!
Can I do this while having a therapist/coach for my relationship already?
YES! Our work is a fresh approach to partnership that we believe will compliment the work you're already doing, as our process is about building a deeper bond and arming you will tools you can use in any circumstance.
I've tried relationship therapy in the past and it didn't work--why will this time be different?
Because we take a different approach to work with couples. Yes, therapy can be helpful, but study after study shows that in a lot of cases, it's not. Even we have tried couples therapy in the past, and found it did NOT work for us---which led us to first to finding tools and strategies that did work for us and then second, led us to creating this course. We knew there had to be a different way....and there is! It just existed in a wide variety of modalities...so we have pulled together and innovated on what worked best for us and our clients and are sharing that with you!
We do have a highly curated group of Relationship coaches that we recommend for one on one support. Please email us at bridgemethod@gmail.com if this interests you.
What Experts Say About Alexi & Preston
"Work with Alexi and you will light a luminous spark of joy in your life that will cause your heart to sing and your soul to soar."
-Michael Bernard Beckwith
Author and Founder of Agape Spiritual Center
"Alexi Panos is a soul igniter committed to the up-leveling and transformation of the human spirit...she creates room for everyone around her to step in, be supported, held and inspired by their own journey."
-Lori Harder,
Transformational Speaker, Author, Fitness Expert
"Alexi Panos is to this generation what Debbie Ford and Marianne Williamson are to past generations."
- Jake Ducey
Author of The Purpose Principles
“I’ve sent many people to Preston Smiles, because I always know he’ll deliver value”
- Lewis Howes
New York Times Best selling Author of The School of Greatness
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